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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband won't leave this job, as this is this is a successful startup project of his life. My estimate is that he's having a mistress since 2016, but met her in 2012. I guess I was just wondering, if they are dating for so long and he still didn't ask for a divorce, why is that?

I am just totally shocked someone could be so dishonest and lead double life: photos of our family friends visiting are mixed with him hopping on a plane flying with her somewhere with faces full of love.

Our marriage was full of love some time ago, and he gives her gifts from same designers, takes to same places he took me. She looks old, in her 50s, but otherwise a very well groomed and attractive woman. She took him for dinner with her husband and daughter, who don't suspect anything.

My son is not doing well (on spectrum), and I am SAHM because I am his main caregiver. I've been working part time whole married life, but it's not a high flying corporate job that my husband promoted his mistress for.

I feel like I was ripped of everything, but most of all, of companionship with someone I built a life after our son goes to college...

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I'm going through a similar situation.   I don't know why the same gifts to the affair hit me hard, but it did.  I'm so sorry he betrayed you and destroyed your plans for the future.[/quote]

Puts you both on the same “pedestal” but it could be out of sheer convenience to pick up 2 gifts or even ordered by an assistant.  Does he feel guilt- my husband has not even gifted me anything in the last 15 years.  I might say he cares about you both but the attitude says otherwise.  The other woman’s attitude seems like she is less interested or at least interested in covering up her trail.  If they see each other daily, then short email responses are logical.  It also seems like she could be playing him for a career and gifts and status.  There are women out there who will seize an opportunity regardless of their home life if it may help her.  Does she know you know?  If you could say something to her, would you?  [/quote]

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