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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He doesn’t press for a divorce. It’s his goal as well to get our son into a good college and not stress out already vulnerable teenager. Now during pandemics he out of a sudden began parenting. We are just de-facto separated, not sharing bedroom, only have lunch together but mostly he spends day in his part of the house and I live in mine. Don’t tell don’t ask family. Would you live in marriage like that for the duration of becoming more financial sustainable by possibly getting a degree financed by future ex husband (in 4 years), getting kids into college and higher payout in divorce? Am I a person without morals myself for not filing for a divorce proudly and instead just working on my own life and case against him ? [/quote] So he’s aware you know? If you can do this patiently and deal with the emotional turmoil then yes but if it’s mentally better to divorce then do so. It seems like you would be okay post split but one can never be sure. So many people advise to leave but it will be hard without having a support system. Get strong first, emotionally, mentally, financially, physically, spiritually. [/quote]
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