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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I do not believe you are currently in therapy with a Licensed professional who would tell you to do this. I am very concerned for you. I am very concerned that you’re setting yourself up to be more hurt unnecessarily. I am very concerned that you are with a judgemental abusive husband.  I am very concerned that you are focusing on a potential child that you chose not to have rather than the actual children who are here in real life.

Here is what you can do right now:

Write the story of this imagine conversation with your ex-boyfriend. Write the absolute happiest possible ending for the story. If this were a fairytale what would happen during and after that conversation? Would he take you into his arms? Would he confess that he has thought of you every day for the past 20 years and he thinks you are the one who got away? Would he offer you absolution and tell you that you made the absolute right decision? Or are you and are you actually looking to punish Yourself further. Is there a part of you that’s expecting him to call you a bad person or a murder or something horrible.

Then write down two lists: one, the top three ways that having this conversation will make his life better.   Two, the top three ways that having this conversation will make your life better.

I can’t see any possible way this could go well?  What is your dream of how it would go?

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