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[quote=Anonymous]Please look at your live children and just love them. I had quite a few miscarriages and I always told myself that those souls went into my current children. That I was destined to have the number of children I have, just the timing was different. These souls were the children I was always meant to have (If that makes any sense!) If I hadn't had those miscarriages, I wouldn't have had my current children (one was conceived very shortly after so for sure couldn't have been born). If you had your baby, you wouldn't have your current children. It would have changed your life very drastically and likely for the bad.

I'm sorry your DH was nasty when you told him about the abortion. He's who should have comforted you more.

From what I've read about PTSD, the best cure is working through it and talking about it. In your case, you need to journal. You need to write about it all. You might even find relief from having a memorial to your child (burying or even burning something from that time period to give you closure).

Currently you're regretting the 20 years you feel that were stolen from you, well likely you have another 40 years left. Do you want to waste them too? Please seek more help[/quote]

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