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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’s out of control and the marriage is headed on fast track to splitsville. Ultimatum her back into her senses. No more co sleeping. Sex twice per week. These are your non-negotiable requirements. In 10 years she will thank you for being the adult.[/quote]

Yes, good luck with that. You can ultimatum her right to the divorce lawyer’s office, if that’s what you want. I can’t imagine many women — or, you know, human beings —  who would respond to an ultimatum like that with anything other than “f**k you”. [/quote]

Well, if he's not getting any because she's always in bed with DC, he's got nothing to lose.[/quote]

Yes, if he considers what he has now “nothing” then he won’t mind getting his ass dumped. Also we know nothing about frequency of their sex life. It is actually possible to have sex times and places other than at night in the marital bed. Also, the man doesn’t have to be on top. Crazy!

But you go on with your weird obsession with how often other couples have sex.[/quote]

She already HAS “dumped him” so your threat rings hollow. Trust me we DO know their sexual frequency is terrible. OP never would have posted otherwise. The cosleeping is a symptom of a sexless marriage. So he needs to ultimatum her in order to prevent certain divorce or certain cheating. As was said he has nothing to lose because his marriage is already lost unless he takes drastic measures now to save it. [/quote]

NP here. Ah... that is ridiculous! DH and I have 3 kids and have slept with them until they were 2-3 years old. We never had sex less than 3 times a week (except for the first 2 months POst partum). We always have sex after the kids go to sleep and then we co-sleep with our youngest that is 15 months[/quote]

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