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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do many kids that you can’t handle? This is not healthy.[/quote] Op here - yes I realize that. I am trying to handle all of them by myself (terribly I might add) but my postpartum depression is making it worse fueled by the quarantine and global pandemic. [/quote] Dear OP-dont' respond to ignorant comments like this trollbot one! Sending hugs :) Listen-you are doing the best you can under very stressful circumstances. TODAY-no laundry, no cooking, no nothing, you and kids just relax and watch and eat whatever you guys want. Keep your feet up, baby nearby, and rest. It's ok if the kids are in pj's today. Tomorrow-hit a few benchmarks. 3 basic mealtimes. outdoors play if possible. Add in a basic schedule as you can. More like a rough outline of each day. I had 3 kids 5 and under once-and I wasn't dealing with a pandemic! It can be so hard. I remember vividly the day I gated the olders in the living room with a box of cheerios in front of Blues Clues LOL (only for an hour, not all day haha). They survived and are educated adults now! But a basic schedule was a lifesaver. And afternoon 'quiet resty' time as we called it. And going outside when possible. As the baby got older, we started having more structure. But your baby is little and needs you more, that's ok. this will pass OP, I promise. Your kids will grow up just fine. This is a blip in time in their childhood. [/quote]
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