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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm so incredibly sorry.  Your story reminds me of my brother's. He was the first in our family to divorce.  He felt a lot of guilt and shame and didn't talk to anyone for a long time and carried the burden alone.  Let me tell you, that's a mistake.  I assure you, your mom has seen this in her life and will know how to support you.  Your family will support you and you need someone on your side that has your back no matter what.  In the coming days/weeks/months he will come at you with lies and manipulation and you need someone invested in your well being to help guide you.  Lean on your family.  I wish my brother had earlier.  By the time he told us, she had worn him down to his breaking point where he was ready to walk away and give her everything, exactly as she'd planned it out.  Especially if he's telling you not to tell your family, don't listen to him.  He's trying to isolate you to make it easier to manipulate.

I'm truly sorry.  This is awfully painful but many, many people have been through this and come out better and stronger on the other side.  Wishing you well.[/quote]

Thank you for this.  I do feel lots of shame and guilt, yet I do know for certain I did not deserve any of this and it is not my fault.

My mom is in the area.  It’s doubly painful that I can’t even talk in person or get a hug from them.

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