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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I’m also trying to figure who to confide in. Given the age of my kids and the gossip train network in our neighborhood I don’t want awful things to get back to them. I’m also a very private person.[/quote] I'm one of the PPs and I'd say this - try to disentangle your shame (unwarranted), your concern about gossip (warranted), and any lingering desire to protect HIM (totally unwarranted). I actually did confide in friends and neighbors, in part because I was shell-shocked and in part because I knew my ex didn't deserve my discretion. It's been four years and not one hint got back to my kids from any of their friends' parents. They eventually found out, but because their dad was bad at lying and keeping his timeline straight, not because of gossip. [/quote]
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