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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s a joint account; don’t you know the password? Is the account joint in ownership, but your husband is the only one putting money into it?[/quote]

Yep! Kind of like all the credit cards too. [/quote]

I don't understand OP. How did you pay for things back before you got laid off? I'm assuming credit card or debit card, no?

Are you trying to say your husband gives you an allowance if you're working, but now that you're out of work you're denied?

Please explain. It's like playing 20 questions with you and you reply with vague dubious answers [/quote]

I use credit cards, he is account holder.    Using the credit cards gives him the ability to see every single  little thing I buy which is annoying at times.  He doesn’t bother me too much about purchases but the few times a year he does is enough to make me feel insecure and angry.  I know 100% he loves this control over me and would prefer I didn’t work at all!   So writing a check from our joint acct to myself and depositing it into my own separate bank acct infuriates him because then he can’t see what I’m buying.     It’s not about the money. It’s about control. Get it? [/quote]

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