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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the men: did it ever occur to you that perhaps you are just not good in bed and that is the reason why your wives refuse to sleep with you?[/quote]

I am sure that’s occurred to them.  Don’t be cruel.  [/quote]

I’m not trying to be cruel. It’s just that some guys refuse to self-reflect and figure out what role they play in the problem. [/quote]

I think it was a legit question.  Lots of guys (I'm a guy, fwiw) are too proud to admit they have issues with their own sexual performance - whether it's size, stamina, desire to pleasure partner, etc.

Me personally, my size is plenty enough, I've always enjoyed pleasing my wife orally and am more than happy to use toys.  She has a lot of mental blocks that allow her to relax to orgasm so there's not a whole lot of that going on.  As of late, I admit, I have not been as willing to go oral on her primarily b/c she doesn't want me to.  Stamina can be an issue if we seldomly have sex but if we are regular, there's no issue.

Generally, I think body image and stress are huge drivers for my wife.  I am always affectionate with her - love coming up behind her and kissing her neck, touch her, etc., but the less intimate she is, the more sensitive she is to that stuff so she doesn't like it as much these days.  [/quote]

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