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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I told him I could no longer do this anymore with the way things were going. [/quote]

What was his reaction?[/quote]

OP here. He took a couple of hours to respond but said that he feels strongly for me and doesn't want this to end. He hasn't been seeing anyone else but me. He then said he was dating a woman before me who he rushed into it with and they were just very incompatible. She was crazy and he had to block her number and all of her social media. He wanted to take things slow and make sure I wasn't nuts ad was serious about him before we made things more serious. I decided to give it another chance and see how it goes. [/quote]

NP here.  I don’t doubt he is telling the truth, however you are 100% right to take it slow in terms of not sleeping over if that’s your line between casually dating and exclusively dating and he’s not ready to be exclusive.  This isn’t American Idol so you shouldn’t feel like you are auditioning for the part of girlfriend.  Smh that he wants you to be a girlfriend in everything but name only while he “takes it slow” to decide if he want to date you exclusively.  And let’s be real, dating exclusively means you see enough to want to know more and not date anyone else.  It doesn’t mean picking out china patterns or that you can’t break up if it isn’t working out.  But everyone has to work things out for themselves. He has to get to the point that he trusts his judgement again and figures out how to tell if the two of you are compatible without having sleepovers.[/quote]

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