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[quote=Anonymous]I’m fast realizing that it’s probably better for me to spend more time elsewhere, as my husband works very hard to keep me home so that he can have all the freedom he wants/needs to pursue his own stuff and avoid responsibility here.  This long weekend? He pursued his sport for 7 hours on Sat, spent all day Sunday with family, and pursued his sport for 5 hours yesterday. He will also pursue his sport in off-hours from work at least three times this week, weather permitting. Rain? Pursue sport in garage.

Getting away for four days to drive kid back to college and combine that with family visit in that same area has him in internal fits, because he will not be free to pursue his sport as freely. Trying to convince my kid to have a car at college (doesn’t want or need one) and for me to get a full-time job here to carry benefits so he can make more $$ contracting with more freedom. Would love a full-time job, but doing it here means very few family visits out of state - I have NO family that’s not at least an 8 hour drive away.  Suggested we move in a few years to pursue that goal, and he refuses to entertain that idea.

I will not be living out the rest of our marriage here. He doesn’t know that yet. He can file for divorce if he wants.[/quote]

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