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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Squirrel away money. Prepaid Visa cards are good for this. Be sweet and compliant and plan your exit. Get copies of all financial docs. [/quote]

I did this for 5 years, was in a similar situation.  I took some classes then quit and got them refunded. Lot's of ways to pad your get away.[/quot

I think I might need to buy a book on ways to get cash from credit card purchases!  :lol:  :lol:   I did the cash back at grocery stores but on the credit card statements it will say the amount with the cash back amount . Busted!  Lots of purchases made on credit cards will only return with the original payment ..  I could get away with big purchases rt Now for the beach house decorating .  I just bought 3k faucets. I could return and get $150 ones and he wouldn’t know the difference but they’d only return to original payment . I swear if he had the choice of giving me a 10k piece of jewelry or 5k in cash he’d never pick the cash ! It’s the weirdest thing . His aversion to giving  me  cash . But it has to be To keep  me from stashing away money to keep  more in control.

Updates: Today I saw his grown kids and they were so cold to me it was horrible. After they left I was in tears. I said this is what happens when you tell your family and friends all the details, your side of course, of our fights. He said oh well, they don’t want to see anyone abuse me . Omg  :shock:  :shock:  I think he relishes in making me look like the bad guy and having people dislike me. I told him well you look like the fool for staying married to this “abusive woman”.  Because I know when I’ve had friends complain constantly about their horrible partner but continue to stay with them I think they’re total dumbasses.  That’s why I don’t tell my friend’s anything.  [/quote]

Why would you buy 3k faucets for a home that you don't own?  Buy some clothes etc. and return them for cash. I'd start selling some of HIS stuff he won't notice missing. Apparently he doesn't want you to have any cash because that would empower you. He is an abuser and the court will see that.[/quote]

She didn't buy $3000 faucets.  She used credit cards paid entirely by him to buy $3000 faucets for his house.  Now she wants to return them for $150 faucets and keep the $2850 balance because, you know, she's been slaving to decorate the house for the last 9 years and is entitled to half of it plus his cash.  [/quote]

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