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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few years ago I watched a friend of the family heartlessly dump his wife of 20 years for his mistress. Wife had never worked, married him straight out of college. Now she's having to work as a secretary somewhere and solo parent 4 kids while he jetsets with his girlfriend. It was a huge shock - he seemed like such an upstanding guy, they were a very affectionate, lovey-dovey couple, and she was and still is very attractive and well maintained. I'm not going to let myself depend on someone, ever. Of course we all think our husbands would NEVER... But on the off chance he does bail, I know I'm going to land on my feet. [/quote] OP here. I think it all depends on situations and individuals. I have worked the past 13 years and have some savings. Staying at home for a few years will not do a huge harm on my otherwise lackluster career. I believe I can get a job even if I take a break. I’m not advocating for all women to stay home just because they can afford it but I wish I can afford to take a few years off for my small kids, esp since one of them has special needs.[/quote]
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