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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is my marriage of 6 years, OP, except that in public he generally will praise me. Just ignore me and give me the silent treatment more often than not at home.  I am miserable.  If 1 out of every 14 days he is affectionate and attentive, he cannot understand how after 6 years of this, I don’t want his interest.  I don’t want to touch him.  I don’t even care whether there may be a smidgen of something legitimate he cousins really be upset about.

I stay because we have a kid together and I can’t subject a child to his moods for 50% of the time.  I don’t want to stay but[b] I grew up with emotional and verbal abuse and I can’t leave a young only child alone with this.  [/b]But yeah, as for me, I just don’t care why he wakes up and doesn’t even want to look at me.  Eff him.  Nothing I could possibly have ever done could justify a few days of this behavior, much less it being the norm more days than not.  He has absolutely no willingness to go to therapy alone or together.  I just have to figure out the least damaging time to divorce.[/quote]

Your child is being subjected to this 100% of the time. She will repeat the same patterns as you and marry a similar man. Or if you have a boy, he will likely think this is normal how you treat your partner. Please break this cycle of abuse.[/quote]

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