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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As PPs have said, it really depends on the kid.  My oldest (in 11th grade and with ADHD/LD), can't reliably get himself up and out the door on time.  It's something we've worked really hard on but he requires a lot of oversight.  My middle kid (in 9th grade) could get herself up, ready and out the door on her own by 2nd grade.  She's organized, inherently motivated and (sometimes overly) responsible.  My youngest (in 8th grade and also with ADHD/LD) could do it by 5th grade.

Contrary to what a PP said about kids getting ready and out the door on their own, this is not a 'sad' situation unless you make it sad.  It's only sad if you don't teach kids how to do it, give them the tools they need and the support they need to be successful.  You're not doing this from a place of neglect but from necessity.  Giving kids opportunities to be independent and self-sufficient is empowering and confidence-building.  Heck, my kids wake me up when I oversleep.  We learn each other's rhythms and support each other. [/quote]

^^Above poster here.  I can't believe I forgot to mention that there was a McDonald's near the elementary school.  Sometimes, I'd drop off the kids off there in the morning with some money.  They could eat breakfast there, they had books/devices/etc. with them to keep them occupied and then when it was time (there was an alarm if they lost track of time), they'd walk to school.  We did a couple of dry runs and the first couple of times, I made sure to call them to make sure they were on their way.  They really liked doing this and they felt great about ordering what they wanted (within limits).

If you've got a McDonalds nearby or something like it, you might think about that option. I can tell you my kids weren't the only ones in there by themselves in the morning.  Sometimes there were kids in the afternoon waiting for their parents to pick them up after school as well. [/quote]

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