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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he has a good salary, FA might have already been out of the picture. OP, I think you're going to have to accept that you will subsidize his retirement. If you were a man, you would be broiled here for suggesting otherwise. As for his kids college, I agree with one of tg he PPs that ypu need to push him to get money from his ex. His kids deserve your advocacy for their future. [/quote] This. If he can max retirement, he probably earns too much for his kids to qualify for meaningful aid anyway. How long has he had primary custody? Agree that he should go for CS.[/quote] Op has said that the ex is mentally ill, with borderline personality disorder. I have such a person in my family. Whatever they get in CS, they’d pay for dearly in abuse from the ex. It’s not worth it. The less interactions they have, the better. I think op was very disingenuous to leave that bit of information out of her first post. [/quote]
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