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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op again

I don’t think she’s actively pursuing anyone from what I can tell (checking texts, messages, emails, phone bill) but I can’t know if that means she does or doesn’t have someone in mind. I also don’t buy into this hippie new age stuff as someone put it that open marriages or polyamory or whatever you wanna call it is normal or acceptable. At this point I’m just mad. Of all the women out there who just want to marry a man that faithfully commits she isn’t one of them? Really? I’d take vanilla sex over this any day[/quote]

You chose the kinky fun lady and [b]this came with the package.[/b]  Sorry.  There are so many vanilla women out there it is not even funny.  YOU chose your partner.[/quote]

So, you are blaming this guy for his wife's behavior and hang ups?  Really?

If  "this  came with the package," the wife should have made that known before they  tied the knot.  
This is all on her, friend.  [/quote]

No, it’s certainly not his fault.  Sorry OP I didn’t mean it that way.  But he seems shocked and this seems like one of those problems that is foreseeable to all but the aggrieved party.  I think the majority of women are not interested in their partner choking them during sex.  I am the high libido partner and that seems too weird for me.  I would like more sex but I would not consider an open marriage on a million years.  This lady is into weird stuff and open marriage seems like a logical next step to me.  I don’t think she is cheating, just making her needs known and if OP handles it sensitively maybe it won’t be as dire as pps are suggesting.

And for God’s sake stop hanging out with swingers.  Geez what a disaster.  Maybe other pp is right and you need Jesus![/quote]

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