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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello, I'm going through a divorce right now, I have a 3 year old and just found out I'm 4-5 weeks pregnant by my boyfriend of three months. I went through IVF the first time and then my ex husband and i tried for several months for #2 before giving up, so the idea that I could actually get pregnant easily, especially at age 43, was not on my radar. I have been a SAHM and have never really worked. My ex and I agreed that in a year when my 3 yr old goes to preschool, I would start working. Which is scary enough in this expensive area with my extremely limited work experience how I will make ends meet. And now thinking about adding another mouth to feed scares me shitless. I'm not sure what to do. I have no family in the area, or really any family at all. Both parents deceased, not close to brothers but both live cross country anyway. Can I do this on my own? Any people in similar situations that can give me advice? My bf wants the baby and wants us to move in together aid he will pay child support and be there for me and the baby. But I've obviously only known him three months so I don't know what will happen. And with no family support and a very limited income, I'm just so scared. Any advice? Please be kind. Thanks![/quote] OP, serious question. Why are you getting a divorce?[/quote]
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