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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Leave her to suggest the next play date. When she suggests, ask if it is conditional on good behaviour. [/quote] I kind of thought I was doing that when I confirming the play date at 3 PM. I should’ve been more clear, and asked her flat out, if it was at risk of being taken away. I kind of thought that she would read between the lines, and thought maybe by asking if it was confirmed then she wouldn’t take it away. She has done this a few times. Try to be kind and understanding, because her son can be difficult. But she has canceled on us so many times because of his behavior. I hate that my son is being used as a pawn in this. He deserves a play date with someone who will show up.[/quote] Did you tell her this? [/quote] No, I’m telling DCUM instead to see if I’m being crazy. ;) [/quote] You are not, 100% agree it's unfair to your kid. But it's unlikely to change on it's own. You could keep declining invitations, sure. If you like her, and your kids are friends, talk to her. [/quote]
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