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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be glad he admitted the mistake, but the whole “you can check my phone when i’m not using it” offer is so insufficient. He needs to know how shaken up you are, *and* marriage counseling is in order. Get a professional to help sort out the [b]What The Hell Happened Here [/b]and trust stuff.

Ideally, he would be the one to find a counselor with availability.[/quote]

[b]Nothing happened here.[/b] [/quote]

Not true. OP's husband was flirting -- seriously flirting -- with an old friend. If I'd sent either of those texts I'd have already been in an affair. They were pretty sexual. He was on the path to an affair, emotional or sexual. Doesn't mean he'd do it -- there are lots of ways off the path -- but he was on the path. OP's husband needs to figure out WHY he was going outside of the marriage for a little thrill and possibly an affair.[/quote]

Agree.

Best case scenario for OP is that her husband went to this reunion and the woman came onto him super aggressively and he was excited by the attention. Best case scenario is that he was responding to her advances rather than making advances of his own. Worst case scenario is that a lot more happened at the reunion and he is lying about it.[/quote]

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