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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, married man here.  My wife also gave me a DADT hall pass, and if your situation is similar to mine, she made clear she really doesn't want to find out, so that makes Tinder and stuff risky.

Two suggestions:  1) if you don't need a deep connection, your best bet is a hotel bar at a nice business hotel during the week.  Think JW, Marriott, Hilton's, Four Seasons perhaps.  I travel for work, I promise you it's 10-1 men to women and most of the men are better looking and more accomplished than average.  They are all married and most (not all but most) will be up for a ONS, and you have a room ready to go.

2) If you want a deeper connection, the key is to find a married man you know and like, do some light flirting and then if he reciprocates, drop a comment like "if only my husband made me smile like you"  If he is game, he will take it from there.

Disclaimer -  I am conventionally attractive, and have slept with a few married women.  I travel for work a lot.  I have also declined far more than I have accepted being propositioned because these things can get really, really messy fast.  Most women like you crave sex but also crave the intimacy more and have a really hard time separating the two.  Like, they will get offended if I am not occasionally communicating, checking in on how they are doing.  I have a family and a wife I love who just isn't into sex, I am not looking for a lover.  I won't sleep with women in my town.

Also, it's not true that every man is going to say yes to you.  It is true that most married men are sex starved and will be extremely tempted, but the brakes will be their concerns for getting caught or getting a disease.  If you find a married man with some mutual spark, you need to be blunt at some point that you aren't looking to break up either of your marriages and you are STI free.  At that point, he will almost surely say yes.[/quote]

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