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Anonymous wrote:I think there should be an escort type service for older women. Men could be any age. It clean and interested in sex. Where do you find that? Other than going to another country where it is Legal?

This is unnecessary. Most men you see are DTF at all times. Especially married men. Approach any man you like and say “hi you are very attractive, want to have a coffee together and get to know me?” will practically never fail.

Alas, women are almost never that overt and forthright. If only they were! But of course women are not used to taking the initiative and risking rejection, so they shy away from doing that. Instead they give you these subtle/deniable signals and expect you to figure it out.

Any married women ever have trouble finding an AP? While I am skeptical that most married men would cheat at the drop of a hat, I am sure at least a quarter to half would so if OP expresses interest in a couple different men one will come through real soon.

Men don't use prostitutes because they want to, it's often the only choice for NSA

Anonymous wrote:I think there should be an escort type service for older women. Men could be any age. It clean and interested in sex. Where do you find that? Other than going to another country where it is Legal?

This is unnecessary. Most men you see are DTF at all times. Especially married men. Approach any man you like and say “hi you are very attractive, want to have a coffee together and get to know me?” will practically never fail.

I think there should be an escort type service for older women. Men could be any age. It clean and interested in sex. Where do you find that? Other than going to another country where it is Legal?

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Anonymous wrote:Before I go insane from lack of sex.

Late 40s female, sexless marriage for the last 7 years, no plans to divorce.

But I need someone to have sex with.

I do need to be discreet -- I have a hall pass as long as I don't flaunt what I'm doing.

Surely there must be an option to find someone in their 40s looking for something similar.

get a username and head over to the explicit section

They are desperate over there. So unattractive. How about dating apps? My sister is using dating apps and dating married men exclusively (easier for her). They all say their wife knows (lies, of course) but it is a place to start.

Wow. Your sister is a total loser.

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Anonymous wrote:Im like OP and feel like a dog in heat. Do men feel like this all the time? I feel sorry for them. The feeling of just needing a good lay wont dissipate and I'm worried about lowering my standards. But I have a one track mind. Self pleasure doesnt help for long.

Wow, where are you women?

I wrote this comment... I feel this way a few days a month and want to come out of hiding. I dont know a "sign" to get the vibe across ... what would you suggest?

A suggestive smile and then try some small talk. Or, just send me your contact info

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Anonymous wrote:Never seen a woman whose breasts are bigger after kids and breastfeeding. Me and my friends talk about this all the time, lightheartedly.

Mine are. They got bigger when I was pregnant and never went down again.

I’d definitely be willing to overlook this issue. But, then again, I’m a people pleaser. It’s my nature.

Anonymous wrote:Never seen a woman whose breasts are bigger after kids and breastfeeding. Me and my friends talk about this all the time, lightheartedly.

Mine are. They got bigger when I was pregnant and never went down again.

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Anonymous wrote:Come to Annapolis tomorrow night. Parole Towne Center.

The meat market that is Friday night at ziki and coopers hawk.

I would recommend this also but most of the guys are bad. I watch week after these beautiful successful woman go home with dweebs. Fun people watching, close second to an airport.

Ziki in Gaithersburg?

Which Coopers Hawk?

I need to start visiting these places..

Ziki and Coopers Hawk, both in Annapolis.

Anonymous wrote:I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Still the best site for affairs. Even better after the big bust. Just have to know how to work it.

I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Hi OP, married man here. My wife also gave me a DADT hall pass, and if your situation is similar to mine, she made clear she really doesn't want to find out, so that makes Tinder and stuff risky.

Two suggestions: 1) if you don't need a deep connection, your best bet is a hotel bar at a nice business hotel during the week. Think JW, Marriott, Hilton's, Four Seasons perhaps. I travel for work, I promise you it's 10-1 men to women and most of the men are better looking and more accomplished than average. They are all married and most (not all but most) will be up for a ONS, and you have a room ready to go.

2) If you want a deeper connection, the key is to find a married man you know and like, do some light flirting and then if he reciprocates, drop a comment like "if only my husband made me smile like you" If he is game, he will take it from there.

Disclaimer - I am conventionally attractive, and have slept with a few married women. I travel for work a lot. I have also declined far more than I have accepted being propositioned because these things can get really, really messy fast. Most women like you crave sex but also crave the intimacy more and have a really hard time separating the two. Like, they will get offended if I am not occasionally communicating, checking in on how they are doing. I have a family and a wife I love who just isn't into sex, I am not looking for a lover. I won't sleep with women in my town.

Also, it's not true that every man is going to say yes to you. It is true that most married men are sex starved and will be extremely tempted, but the brakes will be their concerns for getting caught or getting a disease. If you find a married man with some mutual spark, you need to be blunt at some point that you aren't looking to break up either of your marriages and you are STI free. At that point, he will almost surely say yes.

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

No. It just means we are financially tied together in ways too difficult to untangle without damaging our kids.

I’ve been to therapy. I’ve tried getting his attention. I’ve tried pretty much everything. I haven’t had sex in 7 years. And I don’t remember the last time I had good sex.

in all honestly, and no insult intended, are you attractive/fit? besides a general statement of looking for [basically] a 40-something FWB, what type of guy do you want?

Still attractive. Still fit. Breasts are bigger after kids but that’s the only change.

I really just want someone to have sex with who isn’t an ax murderer.

Troll alert!

Not the DP but why must this be a troll?

Bc most women who have hadn’t kids don’t have bigger boobs than pre-kids. They’re typically much smaller. Unless OP had a boob job.

So inaccurate. NP. Mine are bigger. Was 34C. After two kids they are 34F.

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Anonymous wrote:Come to Annapolis tomorrow night. Parole Towne Center.

The meat market that is Friday night at ziki and coopers hawk.

I would recommend this also but most of the guys are bad. I watch week after these beautiful successful woman go home with dweebs. Fun people watching, close second to an airport.

Ziki in Gaithersburg?

Which Coopers Hawk?

I need to start visiting these places..

Anonymous wrote:Late 40s? That could be difficult, regardless of gender.

Nah. Not for men. Late 40s isn't a problem.