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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am shocked this is even a question.

You do NOT revoke an invitation.  That is in incredibly poor manners.  I can't believe this.  What you can do is make sure there is more supervision at the party.  Raise your child with decent manners, OP. She is learning from you now by how you handle this. I can't believe this is even a question!

Secondly, as so many posters have pointed out, this kid needs to be around kids who aren't doing this stuff.  Your child is watching how you handle this. If you become the catty/trash talking parents who are comfortable cruelly socially isolating a young teen (and comfortable violating social mores by dis-inviting her!) then be aware that if your dd has problems later, she will not feel comfortable coming to you. She will wonder if you will support her because she saw how easily you can be cruel to a teen.  You would not be trustworthy of helping her in her vulnerability.

Finally, if the other teens' parents are engineering dumping this girl, that says a lot about their character. Trash.  They are trash.

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