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[quote=Anonymous]My mother and my sister were narcisists, (clinically mentally ill) with many men in their lives.  They were very charming and catered to men, which was very endearing but they turned psycho when the men realized they were crazy & attempted to leave. Mom went to one bf house with an AXE and literally began hacking his back door when he gave her the "it me not you" speech. (She actually got arrested & had to go to court ordered anger managment- no joking. Sis purposefully smashed bf car when she felt he was pulling away- she felt he "loved" the car more than her.  Both of them considered themselves "passionate" not crazy. When I was growing up, it was like walking on eggshells with them - happy one moment, depressed/angry the next, & ready to pick a fight. Both routinely twisted the truth, "rewrote history", and loved to spread rumours to meet their purposes. Sis went out with one guy twice, when he wouldn't have sex with her, she determined he "must" have been gay and told everybody she could. BTW neither was really that attractive but they were very sexual and attentive.

To the OP- you can help your son by trying to help him see patterns by really analyzing these relationships.  Another key is- your son needs to take it very slow. A very sttractive woman may or may not be crazy, but a crazy one will be controlling, manipulative, complain that she has been taken advantage of & needs a "night in shining armour" to save her and will appeal to his ego. She will want to quickly progress to intimacy. He needs to pay attention- how does she react when she doesn't get her way?  Can she hold a job, get along with people, pay her bills, maintain a healthy weight/lifestyle? If he sees any addictions or eating disorders, he needs  to take a step back.(Mom & Sis took laxatives & were bulimic- both thought no one else knew.)  Attractiveness is not the qualifier -inner damage & twisted thinking is

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