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[quote=Anonymous]He's choosing these women. One bad relationship is bad luck, but many relationships that are bad in the same way means that you are at least part of the problem. The red flags are the same regardless of gender--too intense too fast, black-and-white thinking, always blaming exes for relationship problems, or blaming others for problems in general, demanding commitment, problems maintaining employment or friendships, etc. Some people have White Knight issues, where they are attracted to people with issues because they think they can "save" them. Others like the attention and find the possessiveness flattering, at least at first. I would suggest that he make a list of what he liked about these women, and what the problems were, and see if there are any connections. If none seems to show up, I'd suggest counseling to help him see the patterns. [/quote]
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