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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I grew up in a small rural town in Minnesota, and my parents NEVER talked about my future life as a mother or a wife. They encouraged me to be a curious child, educate myself, and [b]contribute to society[/b]. Discussions of baby names, dream husbands, and the like, never happened. [/quote]

I’m from the south, but same.  [/quote]

[b]Two questions.  One:  you don't think that devoting yourself to motherhood is "contributing to society?"  Two, what exactly is your wonderful contribution?[/b][/quote]

+1. And why is "discussion of baby names, dream husbands, etc" such a forbidden topic of conversation? Don't most people want to eventually settle down with someone they love and have children with them?  Why do we have to act like something that is normal and desired by most humans is something that can't be discussed with our kids. Especially, heaven forbid, our daughters?  [/quote]

PP from south here.  No, I don't really think "devoting yourself to motherhood" is necessarily contributing to society, given the environmental impact of raising several kids.  There is also a positive economic impact when more women are in the workforce.  Finally, I personally feel more fulfilled with looking outward and contributing to the world around me.  I'm in healthcare research.[/quote]

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