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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I believe the person who doesn’t go out of their way to air their side of a personal relationship publicly. There’s something wrong with a person who does that. [/quote]
They do that out of the same heartache as a death.
Millennials need to understand how relationships work and how to communicate. Estrangement is epic in this generation and it is usually a daughter or son in law that draws a line in the sand. I've heard a ton of stories as to why someone thinks  their MIL is toxic. They don't know what toxic means.  [b]Any comment is misconstrued,  ever thought,  and taken personally...and then the family is cut off.[/b][/quote]

I’d argue that people are finally starting to demand to be treated better.  Being a MIL doesn’t give you a license to say horrible comments.  In previous generations women were expected to just take it.  Sorry but no one is treating me badly.  People make mistakes, but continue to insult me and cause trouble and yes, you will be cut off.  [/quote]
Or maybe someone is the type of person who needs so much validation that they read slights into everything. That is what  I see. I know someone who went to a craft store with her DIL. Mil carried the baby, and saw a friend. The friend said to the MIL, who knew there was a new grandchild,  " Is that the new baby?"  Mil said " Yes! It's our new addition!"
DIL made her apologize later that night , with the husband/son in tow to watch, for the word  "our."  " It's not YOUR baby!" She was angry, and crying, that Mom used the word "our." SIL, husband's sister suggested that DIL might be overtired.  The entire family has been cut off . It's been years.  No contact.  There are more stories like this. Don't ever assume there is always the "right" one and inlaws or parents are always monsters.  [/quote]

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