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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I am not divorced. I want a divorce. I never want another man to meet my children. I will never live with a man or commingle my finances ever again. I would like to once in awhile get some action but not involve my kids ever. I would think some divorced men would never want to marry again and seek a similar arrangement. Would not have to last forever. I think it is possible but I think it would be hard to find...I am not ever seeking a full time full out relationship. Annoying at the suggestion I would wait until kids go to college. Um, no. Marriage was the biggest mistake of my life, I’ve waited far too long, and any action would be better then the sexless marriage I have had (many many years...most of the marriage without it). [/quote]

Mid-40s soon to be divorced man and you sound ideal.  I have several friends who are also attractive and successful and they are also looking for nothing more than casual fun, sex and companionship.  I don't think you will have any problems[/quote]

PP here, I went back and read the whole thread and one comment to the above - I think it will be a little harder than you think if you want exclusivity/monogamy but [color=red][b]only a few times a month[/b][/color].  Certainly, those men exist and especially single dads who prioritize their children.  But you will have many more options if you are open to being casual with someone who may also have others from time to time.  I think you will get more mileage having men be honest with you about who else they are seeing for the 26 days a month you aren't together.

Again, there is a pot for every lid so no question you can find what you are looking for.  Good luck![/quote]
Agreed this infrequency ^^^ would eliminate most of the desirable options. Either bump it up to weekly, or relax on the exclusivity requirement.[/quote]

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