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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Celebrated 17 years of marriage with my former AP, in December [/quote]

Just because you are married does not make it positive.  Especially not for the people who are your collateral damage.[/quote]

I am not this PP, but I disagree. If there where no kids and ex is also happily remarried, it was likely the best choice for all. [/quote]

No, having an affair wasn’t the “best chooce”.  The best choice would have been to not cheat and simply tell the spouse you wanted a divorce.  Then the ex could have remarried without the pain and trauma of deep personal betrayal. [/quote]

You are projecting.  Some people do not want to get divorced. [/quote]

Ummm?  Some people agreed to monogamous marriage and do not want to remain in a marriage which, unbeknownst to them, is not monogamous.  Why is your desire not to get divorced more important than the desire of the victim spouse for monogamy.  At least be transparent and don’t lie (which is what infidelity is).

If monogamy wasn’t part of your marriage bargain, then this doesn’t apply yo you.  [/quote]

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