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[quote=Anonymous]Him wanting you to catch him makes me wonder how his relationship was with his mother. I ask because it sounds mother-ish, you having to notice and correct his behavior. I know weight issues are extremely complex and there's a plethora of contributing factors. But I wonder if he's trying to create a dynamic of being 'in trouble' for being 'bad.' Like if you care better than his mom did or soothe or whatever it is he missed out on as a kid. Attention, guidance, whatever. If this is your sense of the junk food issue when he's out. Which isn't healthy obviously for your marriage, or you or him. Just an insight from one of your follow ups. And a bit of been there done that (and divorced) from an ex who created situations where I was authority. [/quote]
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