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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP - I read above that you make 6 figures, and husband makes more. You guys are a power couple. Your husband is a good provider, but he is an indifferent father to small children. It's not great, but you don't want a divorce, which is your prerogative. Sometimes it gets better as children mature. I am in somewhat similar shoes, so we hire out a lot of childcare until kids turn 4 y.o. After that, my husband is able to contribute more without being miserable. I know it's not the feminist ideal, but frankly it's the truth that I observed across many families. I would consider hiring out cleaning, too. It effectively makes my (our?) salary less, but I am OK with it.[/quote]
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