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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone have one to share? I have to believe not all divorces have to be horrible and traumatic.[/quote]

Let me guess... you cheated and met someone and you just want to quickly and neatly move on? And oh yes, I’m sure you “didn’t” and “would never”!! [/quote]

No. I have wanted a divorce for almost a decade. I stayed due to location/custody issues after an accidental pregnancy. I have been trying to survive for almost a decade...I want out. The marriage was always a mistake. Almost canceled wedding. I am not interested in another relationship. I just want out but do not want to cause kid pain. So I am looking for amicable stories. I think we can do it amicably but it helps to hear that not every divorce has to be a disaster. Some marriages really should have never happened and should not be saved. 
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Well that ship has sailed. You said your vows and had a kid and stayed for 10 years. Stay in your marriage you self centered PIA. Have yet to see a divorce really work out better for either party especially if their are kids involved in my personal experience. [/quote]

OP here: this is uncalled for. That ship has not sailed. I got married under an agreement of no kids. I always knew it might not work so kids were not the plan. Other circumstances forced a decision about marriage that otherwise would probably not have happened. People can get divorced any time they want. Many people, including children, go through far worse things than divorce (parent being mentally ill, death of a parent, etc.). I know from firsthand experience. I also know several happily divorced people with well adjusted kids. Keep your criticism to yourself. A wedding can be a mistake...that does not mean you have to stay in it forever. [/quote]

Don't let the preachers/sancitmonious assholes on here spoil it for you.  It's your life - not theirs.  Contrary to what others say, yes, having a divorce can work out but like a marriage, takes a lot of work.  Good luck to you.[/quote]

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