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[quote=Anonymous]Op here - thanks - I am going to share a weird detail that came to light today - he often jokes about us having a boyfriend or girlfriend (eg it he can’t make it somewhere he will say “go take your boyfriend”) etc....

So today I asked him would you seriously not mind if I had someone on the side? He said it wouldn’t bother hi. In the least... I was like, really? He said no wouldn’t bother him...

Now I am NOT nor have I ever asked for Anything other than monogamy in our marriage.... but to me that was maybe something he is trying to communicate....

Weird right?

Also should clarify he does not always reject my advances just sometimes - like 1 in 10 times - but I would always like to have more intimacy - which is why it’s upsetting (in addition to the lying) because I have never turned him down.... and would always be up for more with him...

Anyway yes there is clearly a lot going on here ... and i am not making a rash argument  and also just gathering my facts and reflecting for the next few weeks ....

I was horrified and shocked and devastated yesterday but today maybe I’m in denia and compartmentalizations to have normal life go on.....

An no will not get pregnant again !
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