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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is tired -- that is what her not wanting to talk at 10 p.m. indicates.

I am like this with my DH; I am just so spent at the end of the day that I don't have another bit of time or attention to give.  Many times I just need some space to breathe.

23:46 offers very good advice.[/quote]

Agreed.  If you want to talk to your wife, do it before she is in bed/on her way to sleep.  Presumably you have some time between when the kid goes to bed and 10pm.  Use that time to connect with your wife, and not when she is trying to go to bed.  Also, I would strongly advise you to cut out the passive-aggressive games--withholding affection, avoiding bedtime, etc.  It is not a mature way to deal with things and will only make your problems worse.  Talk to your wife about your feelings, at some time when she is not trying to go to bed.  If you need to, take a day off work or a date night to carve out time to talk without interruption.  If you two cannot talk through this issue, then get a therapist, stat.  Whatever you do, don't just silently stew in your resentment and hope she eventually intuits how you feel.  For the sake of your kid and your own happiness, suck it up, talk to your wife, listen to your wife, and get help if needed.

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