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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I am glad I read these comments and realize I am out of touch.  I originally was a bit offended when she told me all this because a.) I felt like it implied [b]my own children wouldn't think of her or take care of her in old age[/b] when they have a good relationship and seem to genuinely like each other and b.) it felt like she was just picking a paycheck over marriage.  She is very interested in living together/buying a 2nd vacation home together in a place we both love.  I guess I just assumed we would get married.  [b]She very frankly told me "my husband worked a job he hated for years to ensure I would be provided for in all circumstances of life."[/b]  which to me doesn't seem like "independent woman" it seems like picking the "richer" man.  I know I need to change my thinking on that. [/quote]

Why would they?  They have their own parents' needs to consider.

Have you ever been responsible for an elderly person?  It is daunting.

What part of her statement is wrong?  He did, in fact, work to provide for her.  She is not "picking the richer man" (he is dead).  She is choosing security.[/quote]

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