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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]E. Figure out why and if there's something that can be done.

Has wife said outright "No more sex"?

In my case, from the outside you could say I'm withholding sex as we've probably done it less than a dozen times since DC was born.  Reality is I'm tired and feel fat and ugly and unsexy.  DH tries to initiate just as I'm dropping off to sleep.  We love each other but he tends not to initiate other physical affection throughout the day unless he wants sex that night.  Whereas, even if I don't want sex, I might grab his butt as I walk by or lean over and kiss whatever body part I can reach - cheek, arm, mouth - if I'm in proximity, simply to let him know that I do find him attractive and love him.

I'm having a feeling that he's at A right now.  Can't prove it, but a hunch.[/quote]

You are really a dummy who does not realize her good fortune in having a loving DH you actually find attractive.  Who cares that you feel fat and unsexy? Buy some lingerie that covers the unsexy bits.  If you don't get over yourself you will lose his love.  I withstood rejection many times for years.  In the last year our physical contact finally became more frequent.  But a funny thing happened: I didn't have the same emotional response.  My feelings may change but it is far from instantaneous or guaranteed.  You are taking a big risk.[/quote]

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