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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do see this phenomenon. At our local public school there are nearly as many dads at dropoff and pickup as moms, there are lots of dads on the PTA, lots of dads coaching sports and running carpool. At our local private there are no dads evident anywhere except evening events like the auction. [b]Wealthy families seem more likely, in my experience car, to have a single income-earner -- nearly always the dad.[/b][/quote]
My experience is that this is because the really high-paying jobs demand pretty much all of your energy and attention. Two professionals can do extremely well, both with low six-figure jobs and shared domestic responsibilities. High six-figure jobs and seven-figure jobs almost always require so much time that it's really hard to have two of them in the same household. Gender norms, salary discrimination, and the biological realities of pregnancy make it much more likely that couples who started out with 2 careers will "choose" to prioritize the man's career. I also wonder if having grown up being told we can "have it all" makes us more attuned to what we'd be missing on the family side of things if we took the demanding jobs.[/quote]

This: “High six-figure jobs and seven-figure jobs almost always require so much time that it's really hard to have two of them in the same household.” [/quote]

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