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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guarantee this friend knows how you feel about her.  And I guarantee that she is just not into you like that.
It's only in the movies where the person is oblivious to a decades-long crush.  In real life, people are not that oblivious.  If you have anything like a real relationship/friendship, she knows.  Best case is that she thinks it's awkward and hope you never wreck the friendship by revealing it.  Worst case is that she knows and has been using you all these years as sort of an emotional prop for herself.[/quote]

I actually agree with this somewhat. I think you like her way more than she's ever liked you, you both know it, and it's ALWAYS been that way. I also think it's pretty flattering when someone very clearly adores the ground you walk on, and she is probably enjoying that attention. She also divorced and loves that she can turn to you for attention/help/affection whenever she is feeling lonely or unloved. But do I think she feels "in love with" you?? No, I really don't. I don't think her feelings for you are anything near yours for her (...nor do I think yours are rooted in reality, but that's another issue).

Have you ever talked about leaving your wife for her? What was her response?[/quote]

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