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Reply to "Always get a prenup if you have something to protect"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our children did not do prenups but our estate planning set up trusts that would not be part of marital property. We have also set up 529's for our grandchildren that would not be part of marital property. Prenups are very good if someone enters a marriage with a lot of assets in their own names. Our kids had very few assets when they got married. [/quote] You people are all awful. You raised your children to be spoiled, entitled spouses who believe what's theirs is theirs, period. Why on earth would you not want your children to be fair, generous partners with the people they are supposed to love? If you actually did your job raising good, loving, responsible adults, then you wouldn't have to worry about what happens to their money. Do you have any idea what kind of relationships you have set them up for instead? I do, it's awful. I did come into my relationship with no assets. My spouse took control of his trust fund 10 years ago. He quit his job a few years later and now we live off of only my salary, leaving me to save nothing, while his trust fund sits there getting larger and larger every year. He refuses to use any of it on decent things for me or our children. The resentment all of this has caused between us is shattering to me, but for the sake of my kids, I have stayed and pushed it down. I will only do so until they are out of the house. After that, he will become a very lonely man and I am sure that neither I nor his kids will have anything to do with him or his parents. That's what people like you do to your children and their families. [/quote]
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