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Reply to "Ever lie to your spouse/family re business trips?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let’s say he “doesn’t understand.” So what? Why are you so conflict-averse? Say what you need or you have no chance of getting your needs met wih integrity. [b]He doesn’t have to understand it or be happy about it. You get to take your days your even if he doesn’t like it. [/b] But lying about the fact that you are doing it is a totally different level—a way bigger problem than him being disapproving in the first place. That shit ain’t right.[/quote] Not in many/most marriages. Don't know about OP but in many marriages, DH thinking you shouldn't be going away or shouldn't be going away every other months and you saying "sorry I'm out anyway, doesn't matter if you don't like it" would lead to a separation and ultimately a divorce if the person did it more than 1-2x. DH could view it in any number of ways -- like she doesn't care about me/my opinion, she's not a great mom because her needs repeatedly come before the kids', I'm out. [/quote]
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