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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]aying that he was getting better, that we would have been fine had I stayed longer and had more patience. I admit, I am wavering... but I re-read this post and try to remember how down I felt, how terrible that darkness was. He does this frequently when we talk, where he will look back and remember things completely differently than I did.... he will say "oh I was just down a little bit" when there was one day he couldn't even go to work because he was so off. [/quote]

so sorry you are struggling OP. But the above--its manipulative. If he was really truly serious about making it work between you, he would also acknowledge his mental health issues and get help. You have given him the support to do so, but he does't take it, instead he uses that to NOT get help. So,  you two have a pattern, he pulls you back in via guilt, you go back in. Perhaps at some level he does't believe you will stay with him if he is not suffering?  I am so sorry but I think you are doing the right thing. You laid out the conditions for a reconcilation, right? It was taking his mental health seriously. Yours is at stake too, you know. [/quote]

Thank you. Seriously, thank you. I really needed this. [/quote]

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