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[quote=Anonymous]This is the OP.

As an update, I left the house two weeks ago. I told him in advance what I was planning to do if he did not get help, and he still did not agree.

He has been basically begging me to come back since I left. Saying that he was getting better, that we would have been fine had I stayed longer and had more patience. I admit, I am wavering... but I re-read this post and try to remember how down I felt, how terrible that darkness was. He does this frequently when we talk, where he will look back and remember things completely differently than I did.... he will say "oh I was just down a little bit" when there was one day he couldn't even go to work because he was so off.

I need strength. Friends and family just don't provide it... they don't want to do or say the wrong thing, which I completely understand. But it's like I need someone to remind me that despite what he says now, it was not going to get better on its own. I've been through that cycle, where it improves for short periods of time and then we fall right back down the hole again. Why is it so hard to remember that?

My plan know is to cut off all contact. I allowed it at first because I was weak, but I know I need to stop. But truly... will this help me? Will cutting off contact allow me to find the clarity I need? Am I just confused because I let him get to me? [/quote]

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