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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my wife of 18 years recoils from my touch (hand on back and the like), considers 2x a month having plenty of sex, and makes excuses, is the marriage over?[/quote]

It's slightly less over than mine... I'm not even getting 2x a month.

I almost feel like I could live with that. But nah, it's over.[/quote]

Just don't [i]expect [/i]it to get better. Honestly, I felt the same way for a long time. LONG time. Actually, we have gotten better but it has been very difficult.[/quote]

10 second fix to your sexless marriage, 100% guaranteed success: walk into the kitchen and announce "Honey, I've decided to stop pretending that you want a sexual relationship with me. From now on, I consider our marriage to be consensual non-monogamous"
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This would absolutely not work for many people. 
Personally, I would say ok (woman here).

If I said it, the next thing my husband would do is walk out the door and go to a divorce attorney.

It would not fix a marriage...it would end it. Terrible advice.

Marriage is way more than sex. [/quote]

Your logic is completely flawed. First of all, a sexless marriage is already "dead" so there is nothing more that you could do to further kill an already dead marriage. You are just room mates. Second, if you are married to somebody who doesn't think sex is important (because they aren't having any), why would that person suddenly think sex (as in non-monogamy) is SOOO important to end the marriage? And why would you want to stay with such an absurd hypocrite? Your advice to stay (and do what, remain celibate?) is terrible![/quote]

Newsflash: I have kids. They are way more important than frequent sex. This is not that uncommon. [/quote]

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