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Reply to "I'm struggling so much with ending my marriage."
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[quote=Anonymous]The “in sickness and in health” promise does not include sacrificing your life on the alter of someone who does not want to accept they need help/treatment. Certainly physical health does obligate you to stay and see problems through; but mental health issues are entirely different to me. You’ve made a good faith effort, have tried to get him to take actions that will fix his “sickness” and he refuses. I’d go ahead and separate, live somewhere else without a legal divorce for awhile. Consult an attorney before doing that so you aren’t giving up any of your legal rights to marital property. Maybe some space and time apart will help both of you to consider the options. Might also make it clear to him that you’re not just going to quietly enable him to harm himself and you indefinitely by declining to try to improve his health and the marriage. Would give you some time to see if life is better on your own. [/quote]
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