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[quote=Anonymous]When my mom passed three years ago. Her DH of 30 years (my stepfather) moved on fast. So fast that he was engaged to my mother's best friend 6 months after mom's death. We were all shocked and saddened by his move. My mother's friend who was like an aunt to us, shut down communication with my step dad. It's been almost 2 years since their huge wedding we were not invited to.  She "swooped" in. Within weeks of meeting her he was sending her large amounts of money from my mother's retirement savings. Money she saved from the sale of her parents home. Next came new cars, trips across the country, finally refinancing my mother's paid for home that was left to me and My siblings (step dad was allowed to keep it with understanding he would leave it to us apon his passing) It was like something out of a nightmare. We had to force ourselves in one weekend to collect my mother's personal items she left us. Thankfully she stated in the will we were allowed to get our things as soon as we wanted. This included dining room furniture, kitchen stuff, sterling silver flatware, jewellery, gold pieces, pretty valuable items. Step dad was fine but new wife had a fit! Especially when it came to my mom's 1959 barbie in mint condition. She tried to say my mom left it to her. It was a nightmare. After cleaning my stepfather out of a dinning room table, hutch and sideboard, DH and I took him out and purchased new replacements. He was thankful but not good enough for new wife. Anyway sorry so long, but this is what a predatory New spouse looks like. I don't think that is what you are dealing with. Give your mom a break. I wish you well.[/quote]

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