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We can only draw conclusions from our own experiences. She's an adult but she acts like she's been through a traumatic experience - which she has. Her behavior is not that of a person who is ready for a relationship. She goes to work, comes home, drinks. That's basically it. She has gone on vacation once to Pennsylvania.

And no, he won't come and stay in our house for a week. I'm firm on that. I wouldn't be comfortable for my brother bringing a new gf over for a week either. [/quote]

First of all, it's not your call to make as far as whether she's in a position to be in a relationship.  She's likely still grieving and may just want someone to spend time with.  Nothing wrong with that.  I understand your concern, but you have to let her handle this in her own way.

Additionally, I think it's perfectly fine that you don't want MIL and her boyfriend staying at your house.  I would feel the same way. He's basically a stranger and having someone you don't even know stay in your home can get awkward.  I would also be worried that my kids would annoy him or be too loud.  So, offer to put them up in a nearby hotel and plan to get together for meals or during the day to go somewhere.  I'd blame it on the kids when offering it up to MIL instead of making it about her boyfriend, which could cause drama.[/quote]

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