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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think OP is an insecure person.

I think OP is jealous because someone else has something in common with her husband and she wishes she had an activity she could share with him, but doesn’t.

OP’s husband has done absolutely nothing—zip, zilch, nada, NOT ONE THING—that indicates infidelity or even disinterest in OP. So, go ahead, OP. Take advice from all the bitter, controlling nut jobs on this board. Start making accusations. Start controlling who he can be friends with. See how wonderful that works for your marriage. Go ahead! Report back please. [/quote]
This board is full of insecure women who always jump to the "he's cheating" line whenever someone brings up a completely benign situation. None of these women would even think of asking their husbands to stop running with her...but it's sooo easy to tell OP to do it. [/quote]

I know! It’s nuts.

OP, with your follow up about being paranoid about cheating because of your mom, I’d suggest therapy before asking him to change his ways. I know if DH asked me to stop working out with a guy after seeing tremendous results physically and mentally, I’d resent the hell out of him and the situation. I’d respect his wishes, but I’d probably just drop that whole category of workout because I’d get resentful every time I had to run alone or with someone who wasn’t a great fit. Running is hard, especially consistently at those distances. They clearly click as running partners. I’m guessing the wives who are asking why he doesn’t run alone or with some rando aren’t serious runners.

I know several mixed gender running partners. All are married, most spouses run too, none are having affairs. Runners bodies look good, so of course she’s hot. If you feel like her body is better, step up your game. But he chose you. You should feel secure in that.

I’d like to take a moment to point out, if your DH is getting in great shape, other women are probably going to start noticing him. This is going to cause problems with your history/paranoia. Are you going to ask him to never have contact with any woman you perceive to be flirting with him? You’re setting a bad precedent here if you ask him to alter his good habits to coddle your insecurities. I’ve never seen that go down well long term. I’m going to reiterate my therapy suggestion to work on building your self esteem and get over your issues with your mom. [/quote]

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