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[quote=Anonymous]I think the line is not the running together, but the way she talks to him. I'd approach it that way. You should ask him whether he'd feel comfortable if you talked to another man that way or vice versa and tell him that it's left you feeling uncomfortable. I'd ask *him* what he thinks should be done. My DH used to do pilates with some ridiculously hot ladies (we lived in LA) and it never bothered me. But it never bothered me *because* they always treated him like a friend. They did not flirt or call him "gorgeous." Likewise DH lets me hang out with my male work friends with no issue because it's clear it is about work. If they started talking about how hot I am (I'm not anymore but neither of my friends) I'd definitely see him being bad. So I think it isn't the time but the dynamic. I think you will come across a lot less paranoid and more reasonable if you focus on that aspect. Good luck. [/quote]
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