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[quote=Anonymous]That text would not make me mad.  But I think there is a bigger issue here.  You actually go out of your way to point out that you do everything in the house.  IMO, that was irrelevant to the point.  He asked you to do something and you said you would do it.  Instead of saying "remind me" THAT was the time to tell him he should do it himself. "John, I am really busy.  The paperwork is in the top drawer.  If you cannot find it, let me know."  DONE!!  Don't say you will do something, forget to do it and act offended when he expects you to have done it.

The bigger issue that I mentioned is that you seem resentful of all that you do.  That's understandable.  You also seem to think you are beyond reproach when something falls through the cracks. Either divide the responsibilities with him or not, but if you take it on, you have to be accountable about it.  Personally, my DH would have been doing it himself when he first asked me.  For you, that ship has sailed.  But I would not get him in trouble with his boss to prove a point.

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